Practical, Gentle Resources for Neurodivergent Families

Looking for practical resources for neurodivergent families? Explore gentle guides, lived experience, and supportive tools to help family life feel calmer, more flexible, and more connected.

This is a growing library of guides, journals, and practical tools designed to support neurodivergent families through real-life challenges – from school stress and homeschooling transitions to emotional regulation and sensory support.

You don’t need to use everything, and you don’t need to follow a set path. Each resource is designed to stand alone and meet families at different stages.

Some tools are free, some are more in-depth – all are created from lived experience and designed to reduce pressure, not add to it.

Neurodivergent Homeschooling & School Transitions

Tablet screen showing the cover of "Deschooling Essentials" by Totally Frank, featuring an illustration of a closed journal. This free mini-guide is one of several resources for neurodivergent families exploring alternatives to traditional education.

Deschooling Essentials

Free · Printable Mini Guide · Instant Download
A gentle introduction to deschooling for families stepping away from school pressure.
This free mini guide helps you pause, reset, and begin noticing learning without rushing into routines, lessons, or plans. It’s designed to support the early stage of recovery – whether your child is still in school, has recently left, or you’re considering other options.

Helpful if you’re:
  • navigating school refusal or school-can’t
  • feeling overwhelmed and unsure where to begin
  • needing reassurance before making decisions
Tablet displaying the cover of "The Deschooling Survival Guide" by Totally Frank, featuring a sketch of a journal, pencil, and coffee cup. This guide offers resources for neurodivergent families stepping away from traditional school pressure.

The Deschooling Survival Guide

$17 AUD · Full Workbook · Instant Download
A deeper, supportive workbook for families navigating life after school – including those already homeschooling and wondering why things still feel hard.

This guide supports the stage after school stops, when pressure can quietly return in new ways. It helps families make sense of learning without recreating school, reduce demand, and move forward at a pace that supports nervous system safety.

Helpful if you’re:
  • already homeschooling but still feeling stuck or overwhelmed
  • worried about “falling behind”
  • trying to avoid worksheets and school-style expectations
  • wanting structure without pressure

Which Deschooling Guide Is Right for You?

These two guides support different stages.

Deschooling Essentials (Free Mini Guide)Your Deschooling Survival Guide (Full Workbook)
FormatPDF (Instant Download)PDF (Instant Download)
Length12 Pages40+ pages
Sections3 condensed sections:
1. What Even Is Deschooling?
2. How Are You Feeling?
3. What Do You Notice?
6 full sections:
All of the above, PLUS:
4. Create Space for Curiosity
5. Learning Without Curriculum
6. From Deschooling to Discovery
Printables3 essentials:
– Deschooling Is / Is Not
– Parent Guilt Bingo (Lite)
– Today I Noticed Tracker
10+ complete tools:
– All 3 above, PLUS:
– Weekly observation spread
– Environment Scan
– Board Games Cheat Sheet
– This Counts As Learning sheet
– Ready for Discovery checklist
– First Project brainstorm
FocusReassurance + first stepsFull toolkit to support learning as curiosity returns
Best ForParents who want to dip their toes in and get quick clarityParents ready for the complete guide to make deschooling calm, confident, and sustainable
PriceFreeAUD $17

Emotional Regulation & Sensory Support

Tablet displaying an "Essential Oils & Emotions Tracker" worksheet by Totally Frank, with sections to log emotional state, oils used, other strategies, and mood observations. This wellness tool is part of a collection of resources for neurodivergent families seeking personalized support.

Essential Oils & Emotions Tracker

Free · Printable · Instant Download
A simple tracker to help families notice emotional patterns, regulation needs, and supportive strategies over time.

Designed to support emotional awareness without judgement, this tool can be used alongside other regulation strategies as part of a broader emotional toolkit.

Tablet screen showing an "Essential Oil Dilution Guide" by Totally Frank, with a color-coded chart for drop amounts across various bottle sizes and dilution percentages. This guide is one of several practical resources for neurodivergent families using essential oils safely.

Essential Oil Dilution Guide

Free · Printable Safety Guide
A clear, practical guide to using essential oils safely with children, including dilution ratios and age considerations.

Designed to support confident, informed use – without overwhelm.

Coming Soon

New tools are currently in development, including:

  • Big Emotions Trigger Tracker
  • Unit Study Builder for Neurodivergent Learners